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Do You Exercise Grocery Store Manners? Brian Is Wondering Who Does.

Do You Exercise Grocery Store Manners? Brian Is Wondering Who Does.

By Brian Allen

 If this makes me odd, then it does. But I have to get something off my chest about grocery store etiquette. If you feel the same way, please let me know. That way, I'm not standing alone by myself.

 When you go to the grocery store, does it ever amaze you how people truly live in their own world? Honestly, it baffles me. It's like common sense and manners go right out the door. For example:

 (1) The person who abandons their grocery cart in the middle of the aisle to either look at something near-by or even half way down that aisle. They don't pull it off to the side so it runs close (and parallel) with a shelf. They just leave it right in the middle, for either people to either navigate around or push out of the way. THEN if you do push it out of the way, they look at look as if you have committed some mortal sin. Well, if they were around to talk to I would ask them or say "excuse me". Seeing as their cart is in Sioux Falls and they are (seemingly) in Harrisburg, I figure it's no foul to move it. Maybe I'm wrong.

 (2) When you're at the meat counter and people jockey for position so when the butcher says "next" they can be helped, whether they were actually 'next' or not. Why do some people have a sense of entitlement that they can obviously see people are waiting, and they cut in the line anyway? If this ever happens to you I hope you stand up for yourself and say "Actually I was next". It's just such a low thing to do. Wait your turn. If you're in a hurry, you should have planned your day better. Don't be rude and cut someone off.

 (3) How about the people who park RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE STORE, turn their engines off and wait for whoever went inside. This drives me nuts. Signs are blazing "Fire Lane" and yet this person not only parks, but shuts the car off and waits for as long as it takes. If Mandy ever runs into the store, I either drive around the parking lot or position myself in a parking spot where I can see her walk out THEN I go and pick her up. I don't huddle down in the road like a bump on a log and force people to drive around me. This is like fingernails on a chalkboard to me. And finally.....

 (4) People who take grocery carts out to their car, unload the cart, then leave the cart in another parking stall for someone else to deal with. Really? Do your legs hurt that bad? Are the "Cart Return" areas in the parking lot that hard to spot? Truly, I think this is so rude and it bothers me so much that if I see someone do it, and I have the time, I will go ahead and return the cart myself. Why are people like this? Why do some people think the world is only theirs and to heck with everyone else? Again, if you use the cart, put it away. These are lessons we learned when we were children. Everything in it's place. If you get something out, put it away!

 Whew. I have been waiting for the opportunity to get that off of my chest. Thanks for taking the time to read through it. Hopefully, I'm not alone in feeling like this.

 Quote Of The Day: "Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live." Oscar Wilde

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Tuesday, Mar 25 at 9:42 AM Angela wrote ...

The leaving the shopping cart in the parking lot annoys me to death also. I have 2 young children so I also park close to cart return if I know I will be pushing out a cart so I can load the kids and move a couple of steps to put the cart away. Common Sense sometimes lacks!

Tuesday, Mar 25 at 10:13 AM Woody wrote ...

You've hit the issue right on the head..I've encountered the exact same grocery rudeness several times and it also irritates me. i'd also add when two people stop to chat in the middle of an aisle with their carts blocking our path to catch up on the latest soap opera is equally rude.

Tuesday, Mar 25 at 1:19 PM Brad Schriber wrote ...

You must confront these rude people and inform them that they are ignorant, self centered and inconsiderate of others. This is a result of this country moving to the politically correct and not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings. The time has come to retrain these imbeciles to respect others

Tuesday, Mar 25 at 2:49 PM Huron wrote ...

Right on Brian. Another "beef" of mine is the store employees who feel it is important to stock the shelves, unload boxes etc. in the middle of the aisle during the busiest time of the shopping day.

Wednesday, Mar 26 at 10:31 AM cheer4jax wrote ...

My husband and I just experienced most of the points you mentioned! Two people were standing together looking at something and I needed something from a shelf they were blocking. I finally had to say "Excuse me" to get what I needed. They didn't move one inch for me to get what I needed either!!!!! Very rude. I almost always put carts away for others at the grocery store and local discount/grocery store. I totally agree that all the "mother lessons" are checked at the door!

Wednesday, Mar 26 at 11:48 AM Mike wrote ...

Ever been rear-ended by a cart pushed by someone on a cell phone and they could not interupt there call long enough to say "excuse me"? These are people we are driving on the road with.

Wednesday, Mar 26 at 7:24 PM mj3866 wrote ...

Agree with what you said, Brian. Especially #3...that has always irritated me... People are just too lazy... I tend to my grocery shopping/department store shopping during less busy times... It's nice to cruise the aisles without all the people!

Friday, Mar 28 at 2:21 PM Mitchell, SD wrote ...

One thing I live by is,"Be kind to everyone, you never know when you will need a helping/caring hand." Even if pple are rude, put on a smile, they may start doing the same.It also makes you feel good that you are not contributing to all the rudeness and selfishness in the world. :)

Wednesday, Apr 2 at 8:26 AM Tex wrote ...

I know exactly how you feel on the situation. I also feel really sorry for the people who have to go out and get the carts when the temperature is in the negatives and it’s snowing like crazy. For one thing I am way younger than the actual adults doing these annoying things in the stores.

Wednesday, Apr 2 at 8:33 AM Tyler wrote ...

I think it’s rude when someone has his whole family with him and they are all spread out in the little aisle. When they see you try to get through, it’s like you’re not even there and they don’t move.

Thursday, Oct 16 at 5:11 PM kitty wrote ...

Sometimes things are not like they seem. I usually always take the cart back to the store or return stall. But today I had good reason not to that would take too long to explain. A woman yelled at me from across the parking lot and asked why didn't I just take it back to the store. They do not have a cart return stall. I explained that I had a toddler in a car seat, Thank you. We have laws about not walking away from children unattended in their car seat. I also have MS and was exhausted!

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